I finally got around to finish Waffle's old game of
https://vndb.org/v20484, Rinjin ni Kowasareteiku Ore no Tsuma
隣人に壊されていく俺の妻. What can I say but feel slightly disappointed and bored.
Let me be clear, the game itself with all the DLCs is good. It's a solid 7/10 for a NTR game. It's got voice acting, it's got those hidden scenes that lets you peak beneath the wife's dress (so you can see all the bite marks on her nipples) as her husband speaks to her. It's got a decently good enough antagonist who is not ugly, fat, old, or balding. It's better than most NTR games in both Eastern and Western world.
But it still falls short of being "great" and replay-able. I don't keep porn in my hard drive that I won't ever go back to.
I wanted to talk about a few things from my exp with this game about NTR in general.
1. The Role of Women in Japanese Society being submissive Housewife makes bad NTR games
Japan, like many countries around the world, is seeing some sort of woman "revolution" where for the first time in a long time, many of them are financially independent. This means they can break up with their husband, have meaningful careers other than cooking food, clean the house, raise the kids, and get fucked at night. This leads to really crappy NTR games where the wife, the treasure to be stolen, is seen in my eyes as "useless baggage".
I am NOT a feminist. . I love watching degenerative porn. But NTR is about the moral degradation of a woman as well as the destruction of the relationship between two people.
For example, there's a manga that's VERY popular called The Way of the Househusband (Japanese: 極主夫道, Hepburn: Gokushufudō). The woman in that manga is a career woman. She works as a director in a marketing company. She's fit, young, successful, caring, beautiful, smart. She's the kind of woman I want to get my hands on and completely smear the filth of NTR all over her. Not some lazy housewife that sits at home all day while hubby goes out every single day and makes the money. A woman is not trophy. A woman is a partner. She completes me. She's not a pet that I finance and get to fuck every night.
Japan's men attitude creates games that are out of date of what a "High Quality Woman" is. Most developers are men, and the senior writers are probably all older. High quality women, in the new 2021 world, is a woman that makes a lot of money, is fit, smart, cute. She can be a boss of a company, a manager, a supermodel, an actress, etc. Another words, she's
working and
succeeding . Japan's men think "good woman" means sit at home all day, watch TV, cook dinner when husband comes home, and suck his dick. A good woman in the new 2021 world needs to compete in the workplace and win (over men AND other women). THAT is what makes her "good woman" in the new world economy and society, in both Japan and everywhere.
2. The Excessive Moaning in Sex Scenes
This game is so fucking annoying like so many mainstream porn where women fake orgasm. Watch the more "female friendly" porn and you'll see how girls cum. There's more pelvic twitching. ASMR, would be 1000% more effective than loud obnoxious moaning. Hearing a woman whisper softly out of breath "fuck fuck fuck" is super turn on. It's why ASMR is popular. It feels really intimate.
3. The Unrealistic Sex Portrayal and Overused Trope of "Big Dick So Good"
I've already went over this a few post back, this shit is so old and boring. All these male developers have to do is go on women forums that talks about sex. Which, let's be real Japan is terrible at doing since women are way too fucking uptight. But of course anyone can find out the CONSIDERABLE difference between a big thick cock and a small cock. And it's very nuanced why big girthy cock is good.
In summary, all developers need to do is go read some comedy, romance manga / movies / blog / social media. Twist those stories around, steal elements of what makes those good, and smear NTR all over it. Why don't they do it? Because Japanese culture is still too male dominated and ironically it's hurting NTR.
Real NTR needs to break real, sexy, Grade A women. Not Grade C housewives that all they do is watch TV, cook food, and clean the fucking house.
