Levels of Yandere that you can accept

[annaqueue]

(￣y▽￣)╭ Ohohoho..... As a yandere lover I can accept anything. LITERALLY! Only thing I cant accept is cheating but I ve never seen a yandere who cheats. It goes against their nature.

 

[Ophi]

I actually prefer the more extreme side of yanderes, the more brutal and degenerate the better for me. Give me all the angst

 

[konjikinoyami2]

Personally, I can only tolerate yandere up to the "has a GPS tracker on me" level. A little clinginess is fine, but anything beyond that and I can start feeling uncomfortable with the character, even though they're fictional.

That said, as a viewer, I actually find extreme yandere behavior pretty entertaining in fiction. Seeing the heroine being loved and obsessed over to that degree can be fascinating, and honestly, a little enviable too. There's something fun about watching someone love the heroine THAT much when you're safely sitting outside the situation.

But if I were actually in the heroine's position? Absolutely not. Put me in a cage and I'm already gone.

I think it's probably because I really value my freedom. I can enjoy possessiveness and obsession as a fictional fantasy, but I don't want that kind of love in real life. For me, there's a very clear line between "I love you so much that I'm obsessed with you" and "you no longer have a life outside of me."