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Jealous & Possessive MLs: Yay or Nay? 👀
- Thread starter makotoqwq01
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Do you love it when they become completely obsessed with the heroine, or do you prefer a more gentle and affectionate type? 
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Absolutely, I definitely prefer jealous and possessive LIs. I do enjoy sweeter and more affectionate characters from time to time, but if I had to choose, I'd go with the jealous and possessive type.
I feel like they bring a certain intensity to the story that makes things more interesting. (-_-;)・・・
I feel like they bring a certain intensity to the story that makes things more interesting. (-_-;)・・・
hashihim3
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I love jealous possessive LIs, that's always the one thing I usually look for when looking through LIs. Gentle affectionate LIs are fine too but most of the time they don't really catch my eye.
I like both jealous and possessive LIs as long as they are not overly extreme to the point they commit a crime 
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If they're not yandere, I also like jealous and possessive types.
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I would love those male lead but not extreme. Like light level! Since sometimes, i don't like extreme werid male lead that are creepy. I want them to hide their motives at least.
wanlop
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A little jealousy is a yay, but too much possessiveness is a nay for me 
I like it when the ML gets jealous and shows that he cares, but I'm not really into controlling behavior or overly forceful scenarios.
I like it when the ML gets jealous and shows that he cares, but I'm not really into controlling behavior or overly forceful scenarios.
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Yesss, I totally get you! ♡ That intensity makes the story so much more exciting, especially when the jealousy comes from how deeply they care (¬‿¬)
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You know what, I totally understand! Hehe ♡ There's just something about an obsessed ML who can't hide his jealousy that makes him so appealing (⁀ᗢ⁀)
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HAHA, that's a fair point!I like both jealous and possessive LIs as long as they are not overly extreme to the point they commit a crime
♡ I love the intensity too, but there's definitely a line between possessive and straight up dangerous hehe
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Ooh, so you like a little possessiveness but not full yandere mode! (¬‿¬) ♡ I can definitely see the appeal of that balance!
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Yess, I get what you mean! ♡ A little mystery and hidden jealousy can be so exciting, but when they get TOO creepy, it changes everything (˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)
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That's fair! ♡ A little jealousy can be really attractive when it shows how much he cares, but too much control can ruin the fun hehe (⁀ᗢ⁀)A little jealousy is a yay, but too much possessiveness is a nay for me
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Absolutely, I definitely prefer jealous and possessive LIs. But crimes are not allowed.
Confinement is allowed, but violence is not
Confinement is allowed, but violence is not
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looking at my favs drama cds, i think i prefer jealous and possessive mls more than the gentle type, i dont hate the gentle type though.. i also like to listen to them from time to time
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Hehe, we have pretty similar tastes then! (¬‿¬) ♡ I'm totally fine with jealous and possessive behavior, and even confinement can be interesting in fiction. But once violence or serious crimes come into play, that's where I draw the lineAbsolutely, I definitely prefer jealous and possessive LIs. But crimes are not allowed.
Confinement is allowed, but violence is not
I want them obsessed with the MC, not actually hurting her hehe (≧▽≦)
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Looking at my favorite drama CDs, I think I definitely lean more towards jealous and possessive MLs than the gentle type (¬‿¬) ♡ There's just something about their intensity and how obsessed they can get that really gets me! But I don't dislike gentle MLs either. I enjoy listening to them from time to time, too. It really depends on my mood hehe (⁀ᗢ⁀)