I LOVE an otome with gameplay, I wish there were more.
I love RPGs (Persona 3 Portable, Rune Factory 4), stat raisers (Tokimeki Memorial Girl's Side, Dandelion), rhythm games (Princess Debut, UtaPri), mini games, I love it all.
I love it when an otome game makes it difficult to win over your chosen love interest, like Skye in Harvest Moon DS Cute for example.
I still love visual novels, but honestly I much prefer an otome with as much gameplay as possible :3