Making sandwiches

**FAMAS** · August 29th, 2013, 06:43 PM

I was talking to this girl and at some point I asked if she could go make me a sandwich and she got mad! I don't understand. Woman are generally conceived as gifted when it comes to making sandwiches so why was it a big deal? I also have suspicions that she doesn't even know how to properly cook which is odd.

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**Vivi** · September 6th, 2013, 04:15 PM

Um...maybe you sounded like you were ordering her around.
Some girls (I don't want to generalize just in case) do not like to be ordered around. Especially by someone who doesn't have an authority over them or isn't their boyfriend..

And not all girls can cook, fyi... Some might not even like to..

Note: It's not good to just tell someone to go make you a sandwich while you're in the middle of a conversation..

**FinalPyre** · September 6th, 2013, 04:18 PM

Pretty sure this is just a joke, Vivi...

**azazel sama** · September 6th, 2013, 04:18 PM

Hmmm there was a time a girl maked me sandwich with vegetables , She's single now ....................................................................................................................................................................................... LOL JUST KIDDING ? SHE'S DEAD !!!!!!

**Vivi** · September 6th, 2013, 04:44 PM

Originally Posted by FinalPyre

Pretty sure this is just a joke, Vivi...

I like to play along whatever it is

. Even if it makes me look stupid, it just runs in my blood..~

Edit: And I AM stupid.

**MimiZ** · September 7th, 2013, 09:14 AM

Making sandwiches, hmm.
Right, I remember my female friend makes one for me, that I said it's delicious.
Then, she begin to make more of them, wrapped nicely for my lunch meal.
Somehow, having her around, makes me like having a girlfriend XD, though
I'm not that gifted in cooking, yet I can fix a decent meal for myself.
My first cooking attempt was burnt fried rice. It taste good for the first timer I assure you.

**Ghost Kitty~** · September 7th, 2013, 09:29 AM

Hmm azaz is killing his girlfriend over random stuff again...

**FAMAS** · September 9th, 2013, 01:53 AM

Originally Posted by Vivi

Um...maybe you sounded like you were ordering her around.
Some girls (I don't want to generalize just in case) do not like to be ordered around. Especially by someone who doesn't have an authority over them or isn't their boyfriend..

And not all girls can cook, fyi... Some might not even like to..

Note: It's not good to just tell someone to go make you a sandwich while you're in the middle of a conversation..

WHAT!? A woman that can't cook?! That's like having a man who doesn't know what a penis is, it makes no sense. Wtf does she do all day?! Who the hell is supposed to make food otherwise?

Also, I politely asked;
"Woman, may you please go make me a sandwich?"

Originally Posted by FinalPyre

Pretty sure this is just a joke, Vivi...

Who says I'm joking?

**Ghost Kitty~** · September 9th, 2013, 03:47 AM

Hmm... maybe stuff that doesnt involve cooking?

**Vivi** · September 9th, 2013, 05:32 AM

^ Exactly. :3
Also, you shouldn't expect every single girl to have been trained/taught/have practiced cooking! Sometimes it just depends on personal preferences, you know.

Note: I just noticed that. Making sandwiches doesn't even need cooking skills XD. Almost anyone can do that much.. I think.
Which brings us back to the other reason. Even if you asked politely..she might feel like she's your maid or something. If you want something from her you should choose the right time to ask, not just any time. And certainly not while you're talking or chatting normally. It'd feel weird and just too abrupt.