I enjoy both.
I started reading BL because of its intense emotions and violence, it kinda destressed me. And now I feel like I'm on the part of my life where I'm healing through otome, if it makes sense. I still like angsty stuff in both, it just hits differently, I guess.
I also like seeing gentler, more emotional MLs which I can find mostly in BL manga/manhwa. It's much harder with shoujo/jousei manga, unless it's otome VN where I can choose.
Overall, I read both for different reasons. Recently, more otome.