I used to enjoy both pretty equally, but lately I feel like otome games have been lacking a bit when it comes to romance. It feels like they're focusing so much on the plot and worldbuilding that the romance sometimes gets pushed aside.
And honestly, romance is kind of the main reason I play otome in the first place. Like, what really differs an otome from a usual VN for me is the LI and the heroine, getting to experience the story from the heroine's perspective, and most importantly, the romance between them ~
I don't need an otome to be pure fluff or have romance every five minutes, I actually like when there's a good plot too. But I want the relationship between the heroine and LI to actually feel important and developed. The chemistry, the little moments, them getting closer, falling for each other... that's what I want to experience when I'm playing an otome ^^
Sometimes when the plot takes up so much of the route and the romance only really happens towards the end, I can't help but feel like something is missing. If I wanted a VN where the romance is barely a part of the story, I'd just play a regular VN lol °