Red/black or green flag?

[Ninako Ayase]

Curious, in otome/bl games, do you prefer red flag Li? Or green? Perhaps, even black flag?
If red/black, is it to extend of harming mc too? Or you draw a line at that (as in, you like Li who's obsessed, possessive, crazy, yet won't harm mc).

For me, I usually go with red/black flags. Well, because I love the thrill of it. Since their actions often unpredictable, it makes things more interesting.

 

[sweetymana]

I definitely love red black change to green flag of Li. I would still draw a line when the character is unhealthy obsession that make toxic relationship. Red flag is a bit softer for me. I still cannot accept hard mode black flag because those Li should get healthy copping skills rather than relies on female lead. I always want female lead to have healthy boundaries between with Li. I really have strong morals that kick in when Li treated wrongfully to female lead like an object or controlling. Manipulating is like No No for me, it would make me feel bad at the same time.

 

[chuubiey]

I like LIs who give off green flag vibes but are actually red flags. But black flags? I guess no-

 

[Daisy Magnus229]

I'll choose whichever yearn the most lol

They yearn in different ways. A green flag always gives this comfy feeling, while red or black flags mean mind control, confinement, or ded lmao. For me, a green flag is home, but red and black flags are an adventure

 

[deluluscious]

i love them all, i can't choose. each of them has their own charm (˶ˆᗜˆ˵) ♡

 

[nerim-w]

My vanilla ass gravitates towards green flags. I also love what i call "yellow flags" where he might have been toxic in the beginning and then yearns for FL and has character development. For red flags it depends, is he a red flag because he is obsessive and stalkerish or because he likes to physically abuse the FL? If its the latter im afraid ill have to pass. And for black flags (who in my mind is of the likes of matthias from cry or better beg), sorry, thats a line I cant cross lmao

 

[Edsffafzf]

I love red flags that don't harm MC (they can harm other people though) and green flags (though too much green flags can be boring at times). Idk what's a black flag

 

[nanoO]

Ngl otome CDs with red/black LIs are more likely to have interesting and intense stories, a lot of my favs are like that too (btw harming mc is too far for me)
but my oshi is a green forest from a sweet slice-of-life series tho

 

[anzxmxxn]

I love it when LIs starts out as a red flag but gradually becomes a green flag as the story progresses. As for black flags, I associate them with bad endings, so I tend to avoid those

 

[Ninako Ayase]

I definitely love red black change to green flag of Li. I would still draw a line when the character is unhealthy obsession that make toxic relationship. Red flag is a bit softer for me. I still cannot accept hard mode black flag because those Li should get healthy copping skills rather than relies on female lead. I always want female lead to have healthy boundaries between with Li. I really have strong morals that kick in when Li treated wrongfully to female lead like an object or controlling. Manipulating is like No No for me, it would make me feel bad at the same time.

Ohhhh, opposite of me xD
In a rare case, I don't mind if the red/black change to green tho, if I really aim at him (and if he's interesting enough for me)

 

[Ninako Ayase]

I like LIs who give off green flag vibes but are actually red flags. But black flags? I guess no-

Like someone with innocent smile and look harmless but actually obsessed with you?
Black flags tend to be scary indeed

 

[Ninako Ayase]

I'll choose whichever yearn the most lol

They yearn in different ways. A green flag always gives this comfy feeling, while red or black flags mean mind control, confinement, or ded lmao. For me, a green flag is home, but red and black flags are an adventure

Agreed with you. Green flags, we would feel warm, comfortable, touched by their actions, etc.
But red/black, well, it gives us a thrill, excitement, goosebumps, etc.

 

[Ninako Ayase]

i love them all, i can't choose. each of them has their own charm (˶ˆᗜˆ˵) ♡

Haha, choose whoever caught your eyes, right~

 

[Ninako Ayase]

My vanilla ass gravitates towards green flags. I also love what i call "yellow flags" where he might have been toxic in the beginning and then yearns for FL and has character development. For red flags it depends, is he a red flag because he is obsessive and stalkerish or because he likes to physically abuse the FL? If its the latter im afraid ill have to pass. And for black flags (who in my mind is of the likes of matthias from cry or better beg), sorry, thats a line I cant cross lmao

Matthias from cry or better beg? I might check the webtoon later. I want to know how much worse he could be

 

[Ninako Ayase]

I love red flags that don't harm MC (they can harm other people though) and green flags (though too much green flags can be boring at times). Idk what's a black flag

Ahh.. Black flag is much much worse than red flag

 

[Ninako Ayase]

Ngl otome CDs with red/black LIs are more likely to have interesting and intense stories, a lot of my favs are like that too (btw harming mc is too far for me)
but my oshi is a green forest from a sweet slice-of-life series tho

Oh? Who's your oshi?

 

[Ninako Ayase]

I love it when LIs starts out as a red flag but gradually becomes a green flag as the story progresses. As for black flags, I associate them with bad endings, so I tend to avoid those

Ohhh, you like those who gradually turn softer and gentle towards mc

I love bad endings (I used to dislike it in the past, but now I'm numb, and felt like.. It's exciting? Ahem)

 

[Tirin]

I personally prefer green flag characters. I know there are many characters who start off as red flag but transform into green flag after falling in love with the protagonist. To me, that feels a bit unrealistic and hard to believe; my trust has already been broken, so even if the protagonist gets a happy ending with a male lead who evolved from a red flag to a green flag, I still find it unconvincing—especially when it comes to the foundation of mutual trust in a relationship. If the female lead chooses to forgive and overlook the male lead's red flag past, I just feel like she's being way too lenient.

 

[Starfall9908]

For me I love a green flag man. Someone who will take care of FL and support her during hard time who will listen to everything she has to say and communicate to work something out together when there's problems.


I think it's just that I like a good husband who will make my life easier cus I'm single and life is hard enough as it is

 

[Starfall9908]

I definitely love red black change to green flag of Li. I would still draw a line when the character is unhealthy obsession that make toxic relationship. Red flag is a bit softer for me. I still cannot accept hard mode black flag because those Li should get healthy copping skills rather than relies on female lead. I always want female lead to have healthy boundaries between with Li. I really have strong morals that kick in when Li treated wrongfully to female lead like an object or controlling. Manipulating is like No No for me, it would make me feel bad at the same time.

Oh I get the red flag to green flag one! It's lite getting to see a redemption arc and see how they realise how awful they were and try to earn the FLs love by not only trying to understand the FL more but also themselves so they can be good to their FL.

It's a BL but my first thought was the manhwa "Low Tide in Twilight"