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Red/black or green flag?

Ninako Ayase

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Feb 16, 2025
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Curious, in otome/bl games, do you prefer red flag Li? Or green? Perhaps, even black flag?
If red/black, is it to extend of harming mc too? Or you draw a line at that (as in, you like Li who's obsessed, possessive, crazy, yet won't harm mc).

For me, I usually go with red/black flags. Well, because I love the thrill of it. Since their actions often unpredictable, it makes things more interesting.
 
I definitely love red black change to green flag of Li. I would still draw a line when the character is unhealthy obsession that make toxic relationship. Red flag is a bit softer for me. I still cannot accept hard mode black flag because those Li should get healthy copping skills rather than relies on female lead. I always want female lead to have healthy boundaries between with Li. I really have strong morals that kick in when Li treated wrongfully to female lead like an object or controlling. Manipulating is like No No for me, it would make me feel bad at the same time.
 
I like LIs who give off green flag vibes but are actually red flags. But black flags? I guess no- 😭
 
I'll choose whichever yearn the most lol

They yearn in different ways. A green flag always gives this comfy feeling, while red or black flags mean mind control, confinement, or ded lmao. For me, a green flag is home, but red and black flags are an adventure
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