My relationship with gacha games feels like someone with an addiction - I would hate it most of the day but sometimes i would relapse and plays it (and sometimes waste some of my hard earned money on it)
Tho with otome gacha, most of the times they are too stingy and hard to survive if you're not p2w, heck, even if you're p2w, if you're not whale level or leviathan level, you would still drown. That stingyness always be the first string that pulled me back into stop playing the game.
Now i'm in a period where i haven't touched otome gachas in months, tho i'm still sometimes follow the news (like LADS Valko drop or LnN SEA Server just opened less than a month ago) sometimes the urge to play will be high but then i remember the stingy monetization and my will will plumet AHAHAH. Also the grind, that sucks too, i just want to read the story not play whatever mini game that is in season for the event.
Part of my problem with otome gacha is also my taste in men are usually not really catered when in comes to more fixed LI like TOT. I know my taste can be quite niche and that's why i'm more inclined towards otome/joseimuke with many cast member (like Yumekuro) so i can search for the one that suits me best. Even in Yumekuro, i was still looking for main LI (i like maybe about 4 LI but not too much to the point i call them my main) until Volks came and finally i found a man that is truly my taste haha.
The only game i stayed for about a year is Yumekuro, i spent quite alot on there, even then i dipped when their quality (no double awakening, also started feeling the Boys face looks almost the same with the same kind of expression, and it took too long to rotate into the man i actually like) seems to plummet and eventually EoS. It sucks that bilibili choose to pull the funding causing the game quality to drop. Well, i guess that's one of the risk of playing Live service game, it might be EoS all of the sudden even if they kindly add an ending to wrap up current progressing story, it will still leaves many plot hole.
I guess the main attraction to otome gacha live service game is that you can get more content almost regulary, but i think it's not that worth it cuz i've survived with games with barely any content other than the game itself and was able to survive through imagination, delusion, shared fan content and commissioning for fan media.