this is a very boring answer, but i dont think id choose any guy irl..;; the prospect of actual romantic relationship irl TERRIFIES me to no end because i cant even take care of myself, and youre saying im supposed to take care of a whole other human being? hell no!;
the thing that makes otome boys so attractive to me is the fact that they are, indeed, fictional all the way (except for their voice actors i guess), but to meet someone like them irl.. hmmm....
its not like im aromantic or asexual or anything, in fact i have fallen in love multiple times throughout my life, but i think im the type of girl to just admire my crush from afar, without ever closing the gap.. or moving from friends to lovers... or something.........
though i think it would be fun to have a possessive/borderline yandere boyfriend whos too obsessed with you to notice your personal flaws..:3c my view is heavily idealized of course because such men dont exist irl.. but a girl can dream!