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What's that trait in LIs you love but hate in real life?

ark_huh???

ark_huh???

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Being a psycho or yandere. I mean, yeah but i just find it alluring in otome games. Irl? Please i want to live peaceful life ✌️. Also, cold and nonchalant. Yeah they might come mysterious, and really catchy. But irl, it drains my sanity. That would be turn off for me since I love to chitchat a lot.
 
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Yandere definitely scary irl lol. If he just wants me all to himself, that's okay. I don't even mind being confined as long as he provides everything lol. But if he's psycho, like having even a little bit of killing intent... yup, I'm out lmao

Other than yandere probably tsundere! I can endure it if it's in otome games, but in real life... damn, I will yank his collar and shake some sense into him.
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The guy who doesn't take "no" answer seriously, in fiction it might be cute because they keep pursuing the MC and would do anything for them and even keep talking/messaging them even though the MC doesn't like it. But, in real life? That's like creepy stuff for me lol because it happened to me, and my last straw is when they tried to call me when I don't even talk to them... so yeah... no.
 
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In otomes, I really like it when they are obsessed, but I find it to be way too annoying in real life. I need my ME time.
If a guy is too clingy or obsessed, I lose interest or get distant TT
 
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Hinakochan said:
Cold and nonchalant in real life would be the death of me! I really need a chalant man, obsessed with me. I don't know why but I find it somewhat nice in otome depending on the character, but Kento in Amnesia is a no go for me I couldn't even finish his route. also I love your veil pfp!
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Thank youu!!! I love the manga so much.
 
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Probably overly dominant or controlling characters. 😂 In fiction, I can find them really interesting, especially when they're confident, intense, and have that "I'm in control" attitude.
But in real life… absolutely not. 😭 If someone tries to control what I do or treats other people condescendingly, I'm out immediately.
I guess I like intensity as a storytelling device, just definitely not as a personal experience.
 
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In games, I'm drawn to characters who show little emotion and have a rational, calm personality, but in real life, I keep my distance from people like that
 
constant hot and cold and being nonchalant for no reason to me i won't ever love irl, thats why fictional men with these traits always catch my eye ^o^ cus its not real and theyre adorable
 
I love overprotective and jealous LIs, but only in fiction, dealing with someone like that in real life sounds exausting and I love my space and freedom
 
Enthusiastic genki type. I like to look at them, but have no energy to socialise with them, so this kind of characters are better in fiction than in real life.

Also characters without any common sense. They are great in comedy, but a nightmare to deal with personally.
 
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