The biggest turn-offs for you in otome games

[NCaelius]

i think personally for me its weak/mindless main character and really stubborn LI that dont seem to really listen to the mc? this might be a little targeted but i got so pissed off by this one LI that is really fixated on this one uh,, idea, and although he seems loving and nice it feels like he loves the idea of protecting someone that is righteous and worthy, and doesnt really love the mc for her (at least thats how i felt throughout most of the route, pmo so bad). I get thats its trying to portray and bring out his character but i still got real frustrated, to the point where i liked his bad ending more because he seems to express stronger feelings (more like despair and regret) when he loses the mc.