I remember I was on the internet and saw an ad for a My Candy Love game where Nathaniel appeared. I was interested, so I clicked on it and started playing. I liked it because it was in Spanish, and then a friend told me that several anime had their own games, and she recommended a website where...
Yes, if I like an otome or a BL, I would watch it again for the beautiful scenes and to calmly appreciate the details that I didn't notice or didn't pay attention to the first time I played it.
It depends on the character and how well-written their story is, but I prefer green flags, except for the occasional red flag, as yanderes are my weakness.
In my case, I think it would be 18+ games, both otome and BL. I would be extremely embarrassed to be with another person and have them hear moans; for me, it's a definite no.
I prefer when the MC has personality because it makes the options for how they can behave on a given route feel more real. When they don't have a personality, they feel flat, like a blank slate.
I haven't played any games from the Abo world, but I feel like it's a very unexplored niche in otome games, which is why I'm excited about the new game Wakudeki.