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How do you feel about a guy playing otome?

no issues. as long as they genuinely wanna play, then go for it! let them explore too y'know? 🥺
 
don't really care, to be honest.
People should be free to play whatever games they enjoy. If someone likes the story, characters, art, or voice acting in otome games, I don't see why their gender should matter. At the end of the day, it's just entertainment
 
i personally don't care at all i actually have several guy friends who play otome games. i only find it annoying when that small portion of guys start demanding that the MC's gender must be changed
 
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It is strange how it's common for women to play games aimed at men or read/watch shonen and seinen manga/anime, but a man consuming media aimed at women is an anomaly?
I honestly think it's rooted in misogyny, where male experiences are treated as universal but men find it difficult to relate to women / see themselves in the shoes of a female protagonist.
I wish men didn't find it so preposterous to consume feminine media.
 
i personally don't care at all i actually have several guy friends who play otome games. i only find it annoying when that small portion of guys start demanding that the MC's gender must be changed
When Infinity Nikki came out, I was showing a male friend the gameplay and my outfits when he asked if you could play as a male. He got mad and claimed it was "unfair" you could only play as a woman.
Like bro literally look at every other game ever. Infinity Nikki is one of the only games of its kind. It's strange how they can be so entitled when the majority of games (and media) are already made for them.
 
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When Infinity Nikki came out, I was showing a male friend the gameplay and my outfits when he asked if you could play as a male. He got mad and claimed it was "unfair" you could only play as a woman.
Like bro literally look at every other game ever. Infinity Nikki is one of the only games of its kind. It's strange how they can be so entitled when the majority of games (and media) are already made for them.

the infinity nikki case was so funny when it first released, because its subreddit was FILLED TO THE BRIM with posts like "im a man but i enjoy this game a lot!" which just reads like mockery. "haha, this game is so girly and stoopid, but its okay because i, a MAN, am enjoying it greatly, which makes it kiiiiind of a good game!" as if every single female-targeted game NEEDS a man's approval to be considered good. same can be seen in most male-written reviews for otome games
this is the same reason why some people try to reclaim akatsuki no yona as shounen and not shoujo, because how dare something good and deep be aimed at girls first and foremost
 
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I don't think there's any problem at all. Just because a game is designed "for women" doesn't mean only women are allowed to play it. After all, some of these wonderful games might even have been created by men.
 
It doesn't really matter, there's many jp men who livestream free otomege and there was a guy who even livestreamed koei games around, he got 3 strikes so he's not around anymore, I miss that guy
 
never actually played otome games but I have consumed a lot of women catered media if that counts. Likely would read some later though.
 
I don't have any particular thoughts on it, but if a male friend or my boyfriend were to play otome games, I would be overjoyed. I'd love having that common interest with them.