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(dont get me wrong i also love heroines but to say youre more in love with them than the love interests really makes me wonder why are you even playing otome in the first place..)
(ALSO IM VERY SORRY FOR BUTTING IN SO SUDDENLY ITS OKAY IF YOU TELL ME TO GO END MYSELF)

im sure youve seen that tweet that was putting down lads players with words like "unlike cn otome jp otome dont want to attract those crazy parasocials which is why all heroines are so distinct" NO thats not how it fucking works!!! the entire genre is parasocial by default!!!!! if it wasnt, the virche controversy wouldve never happened!!!!!!!

Nono don't worry about butting in, it's always fun to have someone agree with my (lowkey) unhinged rants tbh. anyway long string of comments coming up lol

ALL YOU SAY IS FACTS! It also pisses me off to no end how they go omg I hope companies stop listening to haters and make more heroine merch<3 like get out of here pls

They insist that galge is just too male-gazey for them and they want stories about women written thinking of women and ignore um THE ENTIRE ROMANCE BOOK GENRE FOR EXAMPLE? LIKE SERIOUSLY im sure i've seen some of the same people crying GO PLAY OTOME to those who said that one time they self-inserted into books now saying otome isn't for self-inserts...

And they just say omg no shojo manga isn't the same! I want to make choices :( if you didn't self-insert to at least a certain degree you wouldn't gaf about choices you wouldn't even want to play an INTERACTIVE ROMANCE AAAAAA- Like this might be a controversial opinion but if you want to be a wall be a wall and just don't play otome it's literally not that hard. animanga, books, romcoms and kinetic novels exist...

I did see the twt you mentioned! Heroine fans make it so hard not to hate heroines in fandom space at least omg. Writers, designers, the whole fucking company of their favorite games could scream in their faces HEROINE=PLAYER and they'd still say. my daughter! shesheshe she'll never never ever be you delusional self-insert! you can almost hear them telling us to go die in a ditch at some point tbh

And I mean, that's what they do with every CN otome anyway when they literally say the only heroine is the player... can't expect much tbh but to say JP otoge don't want parasocial fans...? dating sims are parasocial by nature, they're saying it's not parasocial to spend hundreds of hours listening and reading romantic voicelines in a first person POV and making the conscious choice of romancing some guy...

THERE'S LITERALLY SERIOUS PSYCHOLOGY RESEARCH ON THIS SINCE LIKE THE 2010s AND THESE PEOPLE WANT US TO BELIVE JP OTOME ISN'T PARASOCIAL TO SOME DEGREE like as far as I know parasociality alone isn't the problem but that's beyond my current level of understanding lmao

The whole "I wannna date the heroine" thing makes me super uncomfortable too like... there are even some girls as LI in otome... and there's yuri and galge and amare... GO THERE IF YOU WANT TO KISS GIRLS?? GO SUPPORT THE ACTUAL WOMEN WHO WORK ON THESE THINGS?? but how could i forget they only care about bidimensional women right

And when they say if you want to be a yumejoshi just commission art! It's so annoying WHY WOULD I NEED TO GO TO SECONDARY WORKS TO YUME A PRIMARILY YUME SOURCE MATERIAL BUDDY EXPLAIN THAT TO ME like I'm a fanfic writer and enjoyer myself and *have* used the default heroine as a separate character for plot purposes but... in the official works... that's just our setting... orz

Even works like virche and utapri have a special place in my smol heart... specially mathis LMAO I love that guy and his route so much it makes me sad how ppl seem to hate him the most for some reason when they should be hating capucine. and utpr is nostalgia + i just started playing it and it's been hilarious

I just wish ppl stopped being so mean for no reason to yumejoshi... I also wish there were more in my area lmao every otaku girl I've ever met is either a casual or a fujo that outright asks OMG WHAT'S YOUR SHIP?! and you just know they're talking about BL and it just gets so awkward orz

WAIT LMAO YOURE SO CORRECT they say you cant make choices in manga, but if you want to make choices, it already means you look at the story from your own perspective!! otherwise you would just read kinetic vns like succulent and nothing more!

i also saw someone using the argument of "if they didnt intend to make the heroine a separate character, they wouldnt give her a default name and a design and a backstory etc etc" is this not made so that you, the reader, could have the starting point in the story.. no....? most games with nameable protagonist have a default name, including those icky nasty galge.

most of these protags, although often lacking in designs, also have extensive backstories and an important place in plot! yet you wouldnt even think of arguing galge are not made for selfinserting, right?

it almost reads like "holier than thou", like somehow not selfinserting makes them better. no it doesnt. if you praise the heroines while putting down ACTUAL GIRLS PLAYING GAMES, youre doing the community a great disservice. i just dont understand why western girlies engage with non-western works if they are unwilling to accept non-western views and values...;;

and i dont want to sound like some massive heroine hater, because god knows im not! i love yui to death for example, but at the same time i dont like how the company pushes her merch so hard. arent you supposed to sell guys to me? is this too much to ask..?;w;
and some heroines, especially yui, tend to attract male audience who simp for her. hard. this is also uncomfortable..

and the way they start deflecting when you actually propose them to read yuri..
"i wanna romance girls!!" yuri. "oh but most yuri is written by and for men!" yuri from itchio. "oh but i like anime aesthetics more:(" freem and novelgame. "oh but-" your questions have been solved 60000 times youd find anything that suits your refined tastes if you actually LOOKED INTO IT (yuributa sad)

the fujo stuff is so true too.. i dont consider myself a fujo anymore even though i still read bl sometimes (mostly vns, not manga), but the way they act online is so.. at best annoying, at worst just malicious..;; its almost like they do things to spite others, not because they love the genre itself. like why would you engage with 乙女向け (aka straight works) if youre a fujoshi? wouldnt actual bl suffice?