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When did you start playing otome games?

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I started playing otome games in middle school. My first one was Amnesia Memories I found it after watching the anime, and then discovered it was on Steam for super cheap. It was rated PEGI 12, so I was actually able to convince my dad to buy it for me, and that's basically how I fell down the otome rabbit hole
 
Man I don't remember... I think I also started playing them during middle school too 🤔

I was an avid self-insert fics reader (those xreader stuffs were my guilty pleasure, still is), then I got into those Android otomes where you have to wait for a specific hours to get tickets to proceed further into the stories lmaoaoa

And now here we are I guess xD
 
I was around 13, or something like that. My friend introduced me to one and after playing it it made me interested in the genre, it lead me to me moving to Japan and doing an exchange as a teen
 
I was around 13, or something like that. My friend introduced me to one and after playing it it made me interested in the genre, it lead me to me moving to Japan and doing an exchange as a teen

OMG that's incredibly cool! I wish my otome phase had led to something like that. I'm super jealous 😭
Otome at 13, leading to a Japan exchange, to moving there is like a dream ;_;
 
I was very young, prob 13 or 14! I first learned about otome games by watching their anime adaptations. At the time, english translated games were very few but my motivation to play them was so intense i ended up learning japanese for it lol
 
I think since 2021 or so? Well.. 2017-2018 if u count mystic messenger. I only rlly got into console otomes or the heavier games around 2023 though. The first game I ever 100% was cupid parasite lol.. I've always had exposure to otome because of my older sibling who was rlly into diabolik lovers though hahahaha
 
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super super young, when i was about 10-12? far too young for many things on the internet. I don't regret it, but still- kinda wish I was a little older at least (╥_╥)
 
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Probably aroung 10 to 11 ish! I played a lot of "dating" flash games before that age and got into visual novels through the ds which had a lot of mystery games like 999, professor layton and ace attorney. I dont remember what the first otome game I played was but games that come to mind are dandelion, hakuoki and amnesia. I also played a few I probably shouldnt of at that age in the BL genre like enzai and togainu no chi but the 2010s era internet was a diffrent can of worms than it is nowdays XD.
 
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Man I don't remember... I think I also started playing them during middle school too 🤔

I was an avid self-insert fics reader (those xreader stuffs were my guilty pleasure, still is), then I got into those Android otomes where you have to wait for a specific hours to get tickets to proceed further into the stories lmaoaoa

And now here we are I guess xD
FINALLY I MET FELLOW XREADER personomfg i love this forum
 
Around 13-14 and almost pc game as I don't have any console at that time so there are a lot of PSP game I have never played.
 
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12-13 ish

my first "otome" was a gakuen alice (AU? i think) self insert visual novel lmaooo and then i play the shugo chara one in nds

after that i discover konami (tokimeki gs) (I only finished the 3rd one)

for the vn type otome, my first was glass heart princess :3
 
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Started playing when I was 11. My first otome was My Candy Love (LIs like Armin are my type to this day lol), and I also played old otome flash games.
I was aware of the genre very early though, since I grew up watching anime
 
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I think I started playing when I was around 11, though I don't remember what my first otome was I didn't have a pc yet and only played the ones from Playstore
 
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Probably around 9 years old , i remember typing "love games for girls" on the family's computer and discovering Mcl , Anticlove and Eldarya >ᴗ<
 
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Back around 2013-2014, when I accidentally stumbled upon Shall We date games while searching for references for drawing handsome 2D men lol I was trying to draw a character as handsome and stylish as Cloud Strife from FFVII.
 
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When I was 11 years old, as my first otome game it was Princess Debut on Nintendo DS and I didnt even know that the game is an otomege lol
 
I first started when I played some of pacthesis' games during my childhood. I think, I don't remember since it's been a long time lol
 
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When I was like 6 or 7? I didn't know it was an otome game. Just a game my older sister had. Found it fun that you could choose how the story ends and was addicted ever since.
 
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