Hello Again~ renano's Current Whereabouts

Marriage at 25 huh.. It not early nor late if you ask me. But the time's only there when you yourself decide it..
I mean, you can only marry someone you know him well enough and is someone who accepts you for who your are. Because you will spend the rest of your life's together (well that's the plan!)
I'm currently 22 and in a relationship for 5 years..But I don't think I'll be marrying anytime soon.. My parents are a little bit old fashioned when it comes to that so I'm pretty sure sure they'll be asking me when I'm getting married in a year or so =/
And not forgetting the financial side of it..

If the time for to marry has come, please let me know. I'll happily bake the wedding cake for you :3
(I wouldn't mind being the ring bearer too.. :x)

I see you've been through quite a lot these past few months. Don't let it get to you. Make sure you take some time to relax, it's important to stay healthy, both physically and mentally ^^

Anyway, I'm..no..WE ALL are happy that you came back to ASF. The gates to the forum playground is always open.
I need to find myself a good Gate Guardian though..to prevent unauthorized access from outsiders =_=

Do take care My Lady~

Renano-chan!

Well, I can your situation full understand, because I'm also 25 year old, where actually in normal wise already since so 2-3 year married would - and 1-2 kids plus there to: But I think, that this thinking from last century is, everybody has self decide, if she/he in a close connection be will/want, and for the rest of her/his life with the one be will. - I can you only recommend, that you should still quiet about that after think, and not with the things rush - you're still young.

And yeah, the thing with babies... Well, in that region are you also not too late, because I've also no child yet - Well, my parents say always, that I already with the planning for a family make should (Well yeah, some from my former classmates have already a or more kids, and my cousin - what in same age is how I - has already a 5 year old son), but I let me not with that bother - is should freely decision be, not forced.

And yeah, if the time for you really arrived is, that you to whom go (marriage), the let me also know: Because I'd for you really a big cake make, okay?...:goodtea:~>

Notice: Don't let you push.

Two minds better than one~ I was gonna say, eyah I'll be your ram and you'll be my processor but umh lol. But seeing as a "memorizer" would memorize and record stuff, maybe that makes me a scribe of some sort. neh not important though. Things have a way of working themselves out at times. I can be anything as long as I retain the ability to learn.


humh do they/someone use guilt as emotional blackmail ? I remember some guy once making a joke about the title of a jewish book, it was titled: "how to get you child to play the piano using nothing but guilt" Elderly woman fills the role of that certain 'stereotype' or what ever I should call it(the martyr). For example where there is a family gathering, and then when the children don't behave or do/act like she wants, she'll get terrible migraines or headaches, and make it so that they know she is getting it because of them indirectly. In a kinda subtle manipulative way if you can imagine. If it was made to be a sketch of illustration then typically the father would top it all of by stating,"now look what your doing to your mother".
I can't really judge if this is a good advise or not, but if they really are just going to be like that and not change, not now, or seemingly never,(and I doubt they would, or else they would have already) I think you should maybe consider 'giving up on them changing that' and spare yourself the pain, yet you have this small hope in you don't you, because you really want them too :/ and need them to, if they would just acknowledge who you are, and love you that way, even if they have their opinions of certain things it would give you such rest, the knots in your heart being unwind and might be able to heal. But having to keep up appearances even among your own, and your own home, is like not having that place of rest and peace, no safe family den to retreat too. Tiring....
Throw in bonds of obligation on top, and it's burdensome....And you are very loyal, I can tell. They've probably raised you to be as well, and if I'm not mistaken it's also thoroughly ingrained in your culture. But don't let them suck the life out of you or anything, cause people who are already doing that, are not very likely to stop on their own accord. They won't even understand always when they cause an other person to break down all together... Okey but, I'm thinking and understanding with what I got, there's so many things I don't know and questions I'd could ask but..

It sounds like they don't like you at all,(the real you) do you think that if you found that love somewhere else that it would be enough ? or is it just something that you really must have from them. I fear you might just end up trying your very best to please them, and in the end still not get what your heart truly needs from them, and the more you invest in trying to do so, the more you will loose, unless by some almost miraculous occurrence everything changes....But do you feel that lucky ?
How is your art/school going...you given up on that now ? If it still is going.

They remind you +_=

Heh, how did I just know he went to Cambodia, he's a curios guy that father of yours btw. But frankly probably one thats affected you greatly with his ways of behaving in the marrige, you seen all of that after all.
I don't know what to make of the event you forgetting who he was, now that I think about it, coping mechanisms and stuff, and repressed memories mentioned. Heavy stress causing things to be pushed away and buried in the subconscious affecting memory...that does ring a bell with me. Possible connection maybe. Hard to be accurate. No joke...awkward moment :g
Still those dreams, I wanna ask but. I wanna leave it in your hands, I'm already typing such long posts, and I don't want them to be too heavy, or make you fail your list and die like said.
So.
Then, YES please, I would love that, Just like old times :cheerleader: I wanna see you happy handing out desserts and possible loli's if you still do that . Just like the old times. I haven't been this happy since way back then you know that. And I owe it all too you, and so, I just hope all of us here can return the favor, being the best friends any of us can be. Thank you for being you. Your awesome.

So we got stay classy from before, mixed in with stay true. Stay true and classy it is :P

p.s. since you don't seem to use Vm's that much, I wonder if it could be used simply for one purpose only, spamming your profile with pictures as gifts and nothing else, no !? bad idea ?
They would end up being the same type of notifications as likes, they'd only be there for leisure. Okey maybe I'm just going bahahah-silly willy now. nm ^^

Then I'll pick you up in the ufo ofc. You'll discover ufo's, have no regrets, and be ambitious !

p.p.s wear super dark sunglasses at the weeding, there WILL BE BRIGHT LIGHTS)
do you wanna wait until he puts the ring on first ? oh never mind. Cake is what matters.

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Originally Posted by AhGwee

How many "Gwees" are there? >:V

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So I searched and searched for anything gwees on the internet....sry I found nothing funny at all xD
I did say certain though :h

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Originally Posted by FinalPyre

lol, ideal strategist, or ideal recluse? :P

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The crying hermit. thats it. Hey do you remember that time in ......YOUR LATEST THOUGHTS when you gave out special cookies to me and sammy ?

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Originally Posted by samyeung46

Sounds a lot like that movie where the guy forgets everything every day... @_@ Has to put notes all over and record everything to "remember" it... Except that was a love story and you just said you dont want a relationship xD

Lol so from a house to a ship to a ufo~ Quite a jump in technology x3

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I've seen that movie....But it was not about dating 50 woman ! at least not the one I saw, and he used tattoos to remind himself. maybe not the same one then.

Oh....:confused: Somehow I am either in that state of mind right now..or I missed the house and the ship...was there a house and a ship ?

I've probably sucked up a bit more than I intended for when practicing abductions in my spaceship... I'll check the storage compartment and look for a ship, I'll def not want to be dragging that around...horrible fuel economy ><

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Originally Posted by GenKiDan

The crying hermit. thats it. Hey do you remember that time in ......YOUR LATEST THOUGHTS when you gave out special cookies to me and sammy ?

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I gave out cookies? I'm pretty sure I've done that more than once, but I don't specifically remember the occasion you are alluding to. Were they cookies baked with sadness and filled with despair?

These where special genki cookies.....at least thats what you told me !

Sadness and despair ...................that doesn't sound very genki too me !! your tried to infect me with your tears:donow:

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Originally Posted by GenKiDan

These where special genki cookies.....at least thats what you told me !

Sadness and despair ...................that doesn't sound very genki too me !! your tried to infect me with your tears:donow:

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Oh genki cookies sound familiar!

/me cooks you a batch of ちょう元気なクーキーズ！食べて食べて！幸せになりましょうよ！

I can't read that...for now ignorance will be bliss ! ................:full:

Actually I never tried reading it until now, I should be able too...today something, then you bash me with kanji >< Ah moar cookies. I'll care later, even though there is probably something fishy about them. That is if it's even really cookies I'm stuffing in me.

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Originally Posted by GenKiDan

I can't read that...for now ignorance will be bliss ! ................:full:

Actually I never tried reading it until now, I should be able too...today something, then you bash me with kanji >< Ah moar cookies. I'll care later, even though there is probably something fishy about them.

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"... batch of super-Genki cookies! Eat some, eat some! Let us become happy together!"

:runhappy::runhappy::whipmaster::embjudge: Stop Stop please xD