Trying to find an eroge for me

So to start, I might come off as an ass or something like that, but I have been really frusterated in not being able to find any eroge that I like. So before you read this just to let you know, not a jerk just sick of almost finding the right game and then its not what I am looking for.

So i have tried to play multiple eroge's (not going to post the names just in case I missed something for what ever reason and they are recommended for me), and I usually have the same problems with them over and over to the point where I just don't care anymore and drop it or just skip right to the H-scenes. So I am trying to do is find one that fits what I am looking for, and I am going to post somethings I want and things I don't want and after reading this if something comes to mind please post the name. You do not have to go through the trouble of posting the link or anything. I also have and know how to use Translation Aggregator along with ITH so non-translated games are good to recommend.

WHAT I DON'T WANT: First off do not want a high school setting, I know that narrows this list a lot but that is not something I enjoy at all. Secondly, I hate it when the main character is a pansy or clueless. He can be a hikikomori, that's fine as long as he is not some coward or weakling. I know that sounds harsh, but I cannot relate to someone like that so its hard to get into a VN when you hate the protagonist. Also the goody goody attitude bothers me a lot to, I want a protagonist that is more human. I also do not want any RPG, RTS or anything of the sort, if I want to play that type of game I will. I do not want gore and guts in the VN either please. The fetishes I hate include, NTR, Futanari, Shotacon, Fendom, traps and orgies that involve more than 1 male. Other than that I am up for anything. Oh and the protagonist should be male.

What I do want, I want some H-scenes, I do want eroge. Something newer would be nice, and by newer I mean within the last 7-8 years, so nothing crazy. You know, just enough so that the picture quality is except-able. Other than that I am pretty open at this point.