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    Effects of porn on you

    What do you think, does pornography have a noticeable effect on your life? Do you feel less motivated to look for a partner because you can just whack off real quick and be done with your urges? Do you perhaps become jealous of these people on the video getting all the action? I know some people report that masturbation seems to kind of lower their self-esteem, motivation, and overall energy. When talking about combating depression, some people suggest stopping fapping among other things. Does masturbation work negatively for you too or does it help you relieve some stress and just relax for a bit? And is it even exciting at this point, considering how much you've seen?

    Then there is the problem of unrealistic expectations. I've read that porn often gives people wrong ideas about what sex is actually like. After all, it's fake, and the point of porn is to look good, not feel good. So after seeing all that hentai\etc, young people might be disappointed to find out that the real thing is quite different, which can make them lose interest in sex. Fantasy seriously taints their sense of reality, which can be really dangerous. Do you think you can avoid that happening? Are you always able to distinguish fantasy from reality?

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    To be quite honest, I'm not sure. I've never had a girl in my life (cuz I'm just some random dude, amirite?). But porn can be good and bad I guess? For me it keeps me motivated that I'll find a woman, keeps the stress levels down, and you get to see lots of things other people are in too, from the most vanilla to the most bizarre. So I'm not sure, because I can't really speak for the average guy, but that's porn to me, well in my case Japanese porn (because hentai is just a fancier way of saying it.)

    And when it really comes down to what type you watch or read in some cases, the expectation of an actual porn star vs what I believe sex is, I would have to say reality isn't as cruel, unless you believe every guy or girl is a porn star, your standards would be pretty high. To me, a porn star is expected to act a certain way, heck any guy I've seen last for more than 10 minutes and stay hard, is either a porn star by birth or is gifted by whatever hand placed it there. That's as much as I can explain it. Anyone else had the same feeling?

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    IMO, it's kinda bad in the sense that it certainly is easier than actually getting a girl (or guy) to do that kind of stuff.

    For me it pretty much is stress relief and sometimes, if I've got free time, I just say to myself, why no? even though I'm not 100% in the mood for it.

    IDK it's weird.

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    This is more of a combined situational thing than it is just related to porn since most the women i ever had anything to do with were just in it to use me since i was a lonely sap while everyone around me had a loving significant other, but i lost my will to even try getting involved with women anymore then just plain friendship, just use porn for the urges and that's all. I don't have any deep rooted hatred for females just for what several did to me, but i don't feel like wasting anymore time or resources trying to find any of worth.

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    I'll answer most if not all your questions to the best of my ability.

    1. It does, but I won't go into any details though.

    2. I don't feel motivated to look for a partner, however porn and masturbation are not the reasons to why I am not keen on looking for someone. They have no affect on my motivation.

    3. I am not jealous of people having sex in videos. Far as I think, it is just loveless sex made for the entertainment for whoever sees their video.

    4. Relieving myself does help me relax when I have the urge. Masturbating (moderately) has no negative affects on me.

    5. Don't know what you mean by "what I have seen". If you mean the porn I watch, then I guess. I would not watch it if it did not excite me.

    6. I can avoid losing interests in engaging in actual sex.

    7. Yes. It is not difficult to separate exaggerated, acted out, unrealistic porn of any kind from reality.



    Quote Originally Posted by kuchitsu View Post
    What do you think, does pornography have a noticeable effect on your life? Do you feel less motivated to look for a partner because you can just whack off real quick and be done with your urges? Do you perhaps become jealous of these people on the video getting all the action? I know some people report that masturbation seems to kind of lower their self-esteem, motivation, and overall energy. When talking about combating depression, some people suggest stopping fapping among other things. Does masturbation work negatively for you too or does it help you relieve some stress and just relax for a bit? And is it even exciting at this point, considering how much you've seen?

    Then there is the problem of unrealistic expectations. I've read that porn often gives people wrong ideas about what sex is actually like. After all, it's fake, and the point of porn is to look good, not feel good. So after seeing all that hentai\etc, young people might be disappointed to find out that the real thing is quite different, which can make them lose interest in sex. Fantasy seriously taints their sense of reality, which can be really dangerous. Do you think you can avoid that happening? Are you always able to distinguish fantasy from reality?

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    I think it makes me more lazier when i finished watching it, it also makes me guilty but i kept repeating it again and again. i kinda repent for what i done (watching porn) but that urges keep telling me to watch it again and again, and i fall into this endless loop.

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    The effect of porn on me was my right hand fell off due to over use.

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    Re: Effects of porn on you

    Unrealistic expectations is probably the biggest one for most people, but that's one you will get over. I think it's easy to forget that the average porno is filmed (or in other cases animated) specifically to have an element of fantasy, and the participants were selected (or designed) close to peak physical form, given plenty of guidance, and everything is choreographed to fill an allocated time limit. When it comes to the real thing, you'll quickly realise that physically you don't measure up, in more ways than one, but it's ok.

    The idea that it seriously taints their reality isn't going to hold true unless you're seriously messed up to begin with, same with the idea that you get "jealous of these people on the video getting all the action". I don't think most people would be put off from dating because of porn, it's more an outlet (especially for hormonal age kids) than anything, not a substitute for companionship.

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